Bhabhji’s
House is a short story by Ruskin Bond featured in the book ‘Rusty Comes Home’. The story is set against the newly settling Delhi
of 1950s post-independence, and focuses on the values and the chores that take
place on a daily basis in a traditional joint family. Rusty is more of like a
wanderer; he has no permanent place to live in Delhi; thus, one day he walks
down from Connaught Place to Rajauri Garden, covering around eight miles, and
reaches the home of his friend, Kamal. He begins living there with him, in his
big home, and the family that live there is huge.
Through the
story one point has been made clear that no one can live smoothly in a joint
family where cots are snatched away at the crack of the day to place in the
garden only to be re-laid at dusk; a number of children wailing and prancing
around toughens the concentration on anything the person is doing, and above
all women will never obey the senior lady and the senior lady will never cease
to lament their loathsome and incapability. And it is the men who find it tough
to support women, whether to go for wife or mother. A similar kind of commotion
is featured in this story of a Punjabi family and Ruskin has captured the subtlest
details and pretexts like an expert.
The
grandmother, also known as the Bhabhiji, is the head of the family. She has three
sons, a few daughters, and daughter-in-laws, and of course a dozen of children
living pell-mell. No matter how hard and dedicatedly try the daughter-in-laws
of the house to get up to prepare breakfast for their men but they are never
before Bhabhiji. For this reason, she lampoons all of them and all the major
decisions of the house are not passed until she consented.
Amidst such ruckus,
Shobha – one of the daughter-in laws - finds it tough to cope up with the old
lady and her husband cannot support her openly since he fears his mother. Thus,
she finds some solace in interacting with Rusty who often carries out small favours
for the couple.
Well, Rusty’s
favourite person in the house is Madhu. She goes to school in the afternoon and
performs all chores of the house silently without holding any grudges against
any one. Bhabhiji resents the selection of the brides for his two married sons but
she is determined to find a perfect bride for her youngest son, Kamal. For him
she needs an educated as well as beautiful bride. The story underlines the
unity of the family and the lineage of having joint family, a tradition that
lasted for centuries in India but today it is on the verge of extinction
because of urbanization and the need to have comfort and privacy in personal life.
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